Re: Arranged Marriage vs Love Marriage [split from future spouse being Namazi]
^ actually no... i know of quite a few people frmo our parents generation who have been divorced or separated... its not that uncommon.. just more hush hush
and even if the responsiblity factor is lacking in a love marriage, its still a marriage.
No parent, or most parents, do not want to see their children end up in divorce... more importantly, once a couple is a couple, they need to take their own responsibility in ensuring their marriage lasts. Be it arranged or love.
You simply cannot shove off ur misfortunes onto ur parents place, just cus u agreed to marry someone of their choice. At the end of the day, it was ur choice to give them that choice. And that is why so many people in our culture are screwed up.... or cannot stand up on their own two feet. Cannot take responsibility for their actions.
And i am not referring just to men... women do the same. Blame their parents for their misfortunes