mahool
February 22, 2014, 9:06pm
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Why does it view negative in our culture?
How do you view those couple? I heard many people say that hamary bety ko phansa liya… chrail nay.
My perception is that they live normal life and girls complain… ab pehly jesi mohabbat nahi kartay …
Have you seen such couples? Do they keep same heat of love moment after getting married too?
Re: Love marriage culture
You can fall in love after arrange marriage, but you can’t arrange your life after love marriage :cobra:
Mezhgan
February 22, 2014, 9:13pm
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Re: Love marriage culture
I’ve noticed that the love marriage issue often depends on who the person happens to be. If you bring home a person who you’re parents find suitable or at least tolerable, it doesn’t seem to be as much of an issue. However, if they disapprove of your choice of person, that’s when it becomes an issue and they use the love marriage argument against you.
mahool
February 22, 2014, 9:17pm
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Re: Love marriage culture
Majority in our culture is quite reluctant however it does not mean people are not doing love marriages… I think, girls do face problem from in-laws.
Re: Love marriage culture
I’ve noticed that the love marriage issue often depends on who the person happens to be. If you bring home a person who you’re parents find suitable or at least tolerable, it doesn’t seem to be as much of an issue. However, if they disapprove of your choice of person, that’s when it becomes an issue and they use the love marriage argument against you.
compatibility of families have almost same weightage as compatibility between couple in our culture. So problems arise, when there are compatibility issues between family members.
Proof: Life1 forum
mahool
February 22, 2014, 9:27pm
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Re: Love marriage culture
What is wrong with today’s FIL… they are doing job of MILs in their absence… such a zanana mard I ever read in zindagi aik…
Mezhgan
February 22, 2014, 9:30pm
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Re: Love marriage culture
That’s hilarious. My father was just talking about that the other day.
mahool
February 22, 2014, 9:35pm
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Re: Love marriage culture
He also reads life 1 threads… Free entertainment…
No wonder how bad image is now he has regarding Pakistani men…
Majority of FIL are not like that… That was one particular case…
Mezhgan
February 22, 2014, 9:36pm
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Re: Love marriage culture
^No, he does not read the life1 threads lol. He was actually referring to a particular acquaintance we have who is more of a troublemaker and more interfering in his children’s marriages than the average mother-in-law. After hearing about some of the gentleman’s antics from my parents, I don’t know whether to laugh or be appalled.
Nain
February 22, 2014, 9:40pm
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Re: Love marriage culture
Omg churail ney
Kal kuch post karun gi yahan
mahool
February 22, 2014, 9:42pm
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Re: Love marriage culture
why not today?
KKF
February 22, 2014, 9:44pm
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Re: Love marriage culture
love karo, love!
miT jaayeN Gham!
karo subH o shaam
hare prem hare pyaar!
mahool
February 22, 2014, 9:52pm
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Re: Love marriage culture
:cobra:
Nain
February 22, 2014, 10:04pm
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Re: Love marriage culture
why not today?
I’m using tablet cant post anything
Re: Love marriage culture
Why does it view negative in our culture?
How do you view those couple? I heard many people say that hamary bety ko phansa liya… chrail nay.
My perception is that they live normal life and girls complain… ab pehly jesi mohabbat nahi kartay …
Have you seen such couples? Do they keep same heat of love moment after getting married too?
In our culture, which is very tribal in nature, such thing are, considered negative
Nain
February 23, 2014, 9:07am
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Re: Love marriage culture
Asal mae baat kuch nahi responsibilities bhar jaty hain… abb bechara kya kya karey
Nain
February 23, 2014, 9:13am
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Re: Love marriage culture
kitni khushi kushi jarahey hain
Or kabhi kabhi akeley hi
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