Re: Love issue
Yes, but the issue is…she’s still being rejected by your family. Your support needs to be more than just telling her this. It should be apparent to her. If she doesn’t feel confident…that means you’re not being strong enough.
I get it that everyone needs to be happy with the decision.
But lets face itttttt…even in an arranged marraige…no one is happy. Even if mom chose the wife, it wouldn’t matter as soon as she signed the papers. These are desi people and the reasons for rejection I am seeing are superficial which lead me to believe that in any scenario…the OP’s family will be the typical desi susraal. (sorry hitman) If their complaints were valid (she’s battameez, bad reputation, rude, etc etc etc) I would get it. But being 2 months older is not a valid reason to reject your son’s choice. Its just a reason to make him quiet while they frantically look around for someone else they like better.
Do what makes you happy buddy.