I may not have rights to start a thread on this but,still I am forced to do it.I have seen married couples,whether in trains,or planes in buses or even at ``internet Cafes ’ 
making their love.They are little bit concerned about others.It is not proper to look at them,in the context of social manners,but still people are forced to .I always wonder,they have enough space ands time to do it at their homes and why do they want to do it in public?
what’s could be the reasons?
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Shall i tell u what i saw one night on Brighton Pier? A couple who looked like they were very recently married, i think indian looking. The man had shalwar kameez, ankle length shalwar, white topi, beard etc. The girl had a black abaya and hijaab on. I thought they looked like they were recently in this country, maybe on honeymoon.
Anyhow, there were playing on the prize games as we walked past, and on the way back they were standing up beside one of the booths SNOGGING THE FACES OFF EACHOTHER and squirming around.
I was shocked indeed!
It was not a pleasant sight. Regardless of their background, i think no one should do things like this in public, its not nice for passers by!
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I would like to quote one more thing.While typing this ,two people,one man and a lady,seems to be married,are doing the same only,asif they are doing some important work on internet.I am the only person who can see them,but I ,having a headphone and working on GS seriously give them an impression( ? ) that I am not seeing what they are doing.The man ,asif he is passing a look merely outside,kisses his partner.
Infact this act only forced me to start this thread and thy have been doing this for a while.It's really awkward .i am trying my level best not to look at them.
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Ignore them, pretend they r not there, or if they r really bothering u, i DARE u to walk straight up to them and say
"Excuse me jee, I am trying to work but find that u r distracting me too much and it is uncomfortable for me to view this behaviour".
Go on, do it!!!
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yes...hehehe ,thats nice.
emmm im sorry to burst ne1s bubble but i think tht its their bizness wat they r doing because they are married and can do wat they like, its wen i c young teenagers doing this that i get annoyed!!!!!!
as for married people, some couples dnt have time at home, husband always at work, wife bizi with housework etc etc so wen they go out mayb its nice for them to hav sum alone time and enjoy an outing and b intimate together....
if it is distracting simply dont look, turn around and carry on with ure own bizness, sometimes its hard to resist ure partner u know ;)
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they r married they can do wat they like buh they should consier the fact that not everyone wants to see them make out
Islamically its not approved or appropriate.
Strawberry orbit, when they go out they arent alone though! how can people be intimate in public with others gawping at them lol? that isnt intimate.
These people should get a room :halo:
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Lol! I don’t care. Live and let live 
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Its gross.
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too much tv
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are they snogging or giving each other pecks on the cheeks?
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Whatever they may be doing, I tend to convert to "selective vision". I look at the stuff that I want to look at and I don't look at something that I do not want to look at. I can easily screen out people that are making out in public. You can't stop them, but what you CAN do is ignore and not pay any attention.
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PDA is fine by me.
emmm im sorry to burst ne1s bubble but i think tht its their bizness wat they r doing because they are married and can do wat they like, its wen i c young teenagers doing this that i get annoyed!!!!!!
as for married people, some couples dnt have time at home, husband always at work, wife bizi with housework etc etc so wen they go out mayb its nice for them to hav sum alone time and enjoy an outing and b intimate together....
if it is distracting simply dont look, turn around and carry on with ure own bizness, sometimes its hard to resist ure partner u know ;)
You shouldnt judge people. How can you be so sure the married ones "dont get time at home"? And how can you judge that the teenagers are not married??
BUT! I agree with you. I believe its perfectly fine. People can do whatever the hell they want and others don;t agree, they can all very well go to hell.
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I agree about not judging people. I don't think you walk up to each couple, young or otherwise, and ask them if they're married, single, flirting or if they just didn't have time at home. So then with no information you don't have a basis to judge the teenagers. Like I said earlier, live and let live.
First of all, married or not married one must control one's emotions and respect the other person/half. For example, If my husband is doing something like this and one of his friends have seen us... his friend will be the first one to say that xyz's wife was so .......... that she was smooching and getting physical with her hubby in a public cafe. Which when i will hear will not like at all. Infact anyone will hear will feel so dis-respected.
Likewise if it is a girl (un-married), she should have this much regard that her family members (cousins, bro or aunts.... anybody) might spot her with somebody doing something, which will result in a total disaster. I am really amazed when i see young girls with boys in internet cafes and smooching behind the cabin dividers... if i can notice them, what if their family members do as well!!!
The boy should definitely respect the girl's morality as in our society 90% ppl will not at all accept such female who have been found dating or hanging out with boys!!!!
yes of course they can do whatever they want, its their personal life... but to tell u the truth, i think it is totally wrong!!!
are they snogging or giving each other pecks on the cheeks?
They were snogging .At times the male would put his hand around his partner's neck and would do something on her chest and immediatey take his hand out.Is it not weird?Atleast,they should think that they are living in a civilized world.
^ lol
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Today my friend had to do a nasty thing. Again the same couple happened to come in here and I and my friend were just walking behind them to enter the office room.As soon as my friend noticed they were going to occupy the same seat which they had occupied yesterday(where they could carry out their activity :p),my friend immediately jumped over them and occupied that seat.Poor souls,have to wait now till he finishes off his business and I do not think they will get the seat today.
My friend is grinning at me now :D