So i was just reading a thread and began to question people perception of love. Ive often heard people who have been with partners for a matter of months say they were in love… Is it really possible? How can u love someone who’s only just popped up on the scene. Even if your in a proper relationship with them, talking regularly just acting like a normal couple, i think that is more of an attachment, more of infatuation, it cud be ‘like’, anything but not love.. IMO You need to have more of a solid background with ur partner, which requires time.. not days, weeks or months. So for the people who’ve known their guys/ girls for a million years im not questioning u people
Ive never believed I could fall in love unless I was married to someone, because only then would I be fully obliged to give my 110% to that guy. Personally I found out it was impossible because being the person that I am I wud’nt commit to any one unless I know its going somewhere solid, even that ‘getting to know’ stage.. that cant be love right?
Somebody told me they loved me once and I laughed in their face… not the best of reactions but love is like… a huge word… How can it be so easily thrown about? How do u know that ur in love?
I want to know the other side of love… to the people who are in it after a few months, are you REALLY sure?
LOL Lama I will tell you a story about this guy on chat that I know who fell in love with someone in 4 days, had phone nikkah, 6 months later broke up with her and has come back to me crying about his adventures.
I think as humans that soul mate term is a load of bull coz we adjust to who ever is around us... I think ur right.. is it mostly about compatibility?... does that mean 90% of the population dont understand what love is?
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LOL Lama I will tell you a story about this guy on chat that I know who fell in love with someone in 4 days, had phone nikkah, 6 months later broke up with her and has come back to me crying about his adventures.
well then thats "love" not Love! lol and may i add what an idiot!
the real way to find out if you are in love with someone is to really see them for a few years, move in together, have a baby or two, see how that holds up the relationship, and then if all is well declare love for one another and get married
It was not even pretend love. He just got attracted to her and thought she was the one. Did not even look at the practicality and stuff. She was in some other country, him in Dubai. Both met each other through me facebook and in 4 days he thought OMG I am in love. Just lust, or infatuation nothing else.
It was not even pretend love. He just got attracted to her and thought she was the one. Did not even look at the practicality and stuff. She was in some other country, him in Dubai. Both met each other through me facebook and in 4 days he thought OMG I am in love. Just lust, or infatuation nothing else.
I am not complicated, just mysterious and cryptic, big difference.
the wisdom is there for those who go beyond the composition and words
Not at all, there is an important point there,
gangsta lingo? I am the 'riginal roodbwoy round these neck o the world wide server farm. mixing ebonics, cajun, cockney, rasta, jive, anyway which i like to. just not been doing it for sometime
*I think you CAN fall in love within a day (as long as you both are not crazzy and are true about each others feelings, and most imp, are looking to get married). *
example. my freind met her bf and the next day he said to her "we're getting married right?" and she was like "ya" and its been 3 years and both now finished with college and now iA' will be getting married. and I must say mA' they were born for one another!
