Re: Love after Nikkah
Yes, we discussed a lot of practical things like planning for the future, our hajj together etc but we weren’t buddy buddy. Very polite and straightforward like you would be with a colleague. Post nikkah/rukhsati we started dating properly. Once we got comfortable with each other we did realise we are both fairly critical and we had dumb arguments over small things but I think you start dropping issues and start being more compassionate the more fond you get of each other. Not always the case, I know, but it happened naturally for us because we both know we’re trying as best as we can. If either one of us was slacking or being rude I think we would have combusted.