Lost

[Alone00]

Re: Lost

@third_string

I feel you should be more dominant in your interactions with potential rishtas, they probably assume you’re sad and desperate and can be easily pushed around, so you need to stand your ground and be assertive. I know it’s easier said than done and I have no idea what you’ve been through however the first step out of this rut is to get out of your depression.

I am not desperate and I gave them time to make up their mind , they just simply reject , they dnt have a single issue with my personality but they cite reasons for rejection which are not in my control !! I have shown flexibility like I agreed to support their family , I agreed to take responsibility of studies of one of their family member , I was pushed around you are right but I was still rejected , if I stand my ground which I had than they all disliked it that why I was still trying to approach when I am rejected…