Lost

[Alone00]

Re: Lost

@third_string

I feel you should be more dominant in your interactions with potential rishtas, they probably assume you’re sad and desperate and can be easily pushed around, so you need to stand your ground and be assertive. I know it’s easier said than done and I have no idea what you’ve been through however the first step out of this rut is to get out of your depression.

I cannot be dominant as what other partner thinks cant be changed on the other hand ! They like me first literally surrender themselves but when they know the reality they change so quickly no matter what I do how I say it wont change them . I try to keep myself very compose both emotionally and physically but ground reality still remains that I dnt own big house , car , family ! They also reject me giving reason that if I was settled abroad than they could ignore what I lack ! Sorry to say but upper class and upper middle class do think like that !