losing my sleep over an issue

its really gud u have gud tolerance level but in the long run this encourages men to continue to behave this way. trust me as long as u work he will not spend a penny on u or ur children and when u finally leave job, he will not let u have it easy either. i dun want to instigate u against him or anything.. just tellin u the facts. things cudve been either worse or better... u jst have to change his thinkin a lil bit so atleast he realises.