Hello everyone!
What makes a man lose interest in a relationship?What makes a man fall out of love?
If a man makes you feel like he loves you like crazy in the beginning of a relationship, then why does his behavior change all of a sudden?
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one possiblity is that he starts taking you for granted.
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Because he is not being kept interested, he knows he has you the chase is over hes got everything he wantes now he is bored.
The relationship doesnt have that fun anymore....you arent doing new things or learning new things about eachother, its just petty arguments and same old chat now.
Its up to both of you to keep the relationship going, but males need to be made a little jealous, need to kept on their toes running after you and looking forward to something new and exciting.
are you married? spice things up with a weekend away or do something new, try new hobbies together.
Not married? if your enageged...dont talk to him on the phone every single day and text him all the time saying you miss him, dont agree to every demand, make him miss you and wnt you.
Make sure your life does not revolve around him and you are not dependent on him.
Men are attracted to independent happy women, they very easily take their women for granted and make sure that doesnt happen to you.
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^ i so agree with u alvena
A healthy distance needs to be maintained with some men.. You need to have your own bit of 'life' on the side. But i think that might only apply to 'boys' and not 'men'
boys being the type to not so serious in settling down and men who are family men, loving their wife and kids.
I guess it depends on what the individual male wants and what frame of mind he's in
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After having a "love" relationship you should know the guy better.
Sure ..You can ask questions about what is going on around him, to make sense of his act...
But asking ppl why did he lose interest... is ..hmm.. As you did not know the guy to begin with...
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Love is blind. But once it open up it's eyes when you actually know the person and her personality and if it is not worth it, than its enough for a man to fall out of it.
and yea for loosing interest part, I think if its only about one person in the whole relationship than sooner or later other person is not that much interested. It should be a two way traffic. Stop being the center of attention.
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dude your first sentence is mean..
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ONE word answer ..........
FAT!
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On a serious note and .... before you all ladies start taking off your chupal to smack me for saying that (FAT) ............ well i believe...its lake of communication........
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There is no such thing as falling out of love. The love was never there to begin with.
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IMO, Love is never there to begin with. It's called passion, hormones, attraction,..etc not LOVE.
Love ek aisi cheez hai that you have to build, it doesn't just magically appear. Takes time...
Also other factors may be the physical attraction, life responsibilities, family pressue...
Charrbee ? :aq:
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^ yes you guessed it right ;) lolz
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All good things MUST come to an end!!
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Falling out of love, is when the rottis come burn and too much salt in the curry!:)
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Wow, so many people over here seem to be against love!:p
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^ Yeah it sucks init?
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^ Love doesn't suck!It becomes bitter just due to some people!:p
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If you had mac n cheese for lunch every single day, there would come a time when you would never even want to look at it again.
Same goes for love and relationships...change it up woman! Do something fun and crazy with yourself...get a make over!
And please stop smothering him because it looks like he already won his prize...there is no reason to work so hard anymore to win you.
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Thats why we are allowed to marry 4 women!