Re: Losing faith in Love!!
When i hear stories where people were together for such a long time emotionally and one day they just back out. They realize they simply cant do it cant fight to be with the one that they really want. It scares me.
then u need to work on urself more than anything girl
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I know i am not the type to get along with arrange marriages. and this love marriage thing is scary.
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we all think this way but trust me Allah has best n BESTEST for everyone on the face of this earth.
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What if the guy/girl leaves you in middle of no where.. what do you do after that
introduce yourself to a new person- introduction over and over again....
its scray how can you trust someone and know they wont leave your side?
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see the best way to deal with such thing is to stand up and say Alhamdullilah it happened...even though that makes u cry for sooo many nights but just saying that watever happened ...happened by the grace of Allah Almighty then you get stronger and firm in ur decision making. Yaar this love shove is nothing..wat can it do the most..hurt u ?? break u apart? emotionally unstable? and most of all love of who..a guy or a gal who is not even related to u ?compare to the love that u can get in return from family/siblings and most of all Allah (s.w.t). So my fren, u need to work on urself to make urself strong enuff to be mentally prepare for anything good or bad that comes to ur way. I know its pretty darn ez for me to type it all but if u for once think that how ppl are dying in middle east..trust me this takes away all the attention..at least it works for me :)