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Ah yes, the spineless desi mommy's boy scenario. A true classic.
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why the F on earth men fall in love give girl delasey and in the end do what their mom want.... Fidiots..
Haye Allah, mein sadqey jawan. Aap ghussey mein kitni achee lagtee hain.
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ahh thats just sad..
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They dont have balls. Simple.
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How does it affect your faith? I'm sure it is not your personal experience
The bitterness towards men is uncalled for.
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xactly
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ufffo
i didnt say ALL men are like that...
Man suppose to be manly have a head on his shoulders and should have atleast 1 ball. They suppose to stand up and face this world not hide behind their mother's dupatta.
there are girls who back out as well. it does go both ways...
i know some really nice men who stood by their wives even though they were biggest *****es on face of this earth !!!
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Alrighty then. Generalizations shouldn't tilt your faith one way or the other.
Love is more about giving than something that comes on a platter. What are you doing in terms of giving to restore your faith?
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fayz... just think about it.
When i hear stories where people were together for such a long time emotionally and one day they just back out. They realize they simply cant do it cant fight to be with the one that they really want. It scares me.
I know i am not the type to get along with arrange marriages. and this love marriage thing is scary.
What if the guy/girl leaves you in middle of no where.. what do you do after that
introduce yourself to a new person- introduction over and over again....
its scray how can you trust someone and know they wont leave your side?
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There is no specific method to trust someone. It's more about trusting your own judgement. Relationships require maturity, however the level of maturity doesn't stop people from getting married.
You can't control how the other peson will behave in the future..what you can control is investing your time wisely.
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A mexican chick reverted to Islam for my brother after he broke up with her, but he thought she was annoying so he didn't bother getting back with her.
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its scray how can you trust someone and know they wont leave your side?
You just can
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omgg thas just sad poor girl!
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The moral of the story never go out or marry a mummies boy.
This Hindu girl that i know for a while at this point. She was involved with this Pakistani guy since the age of 17.
They hung out together, she didn't let him take advantage of her [which is a good thing]. She even converted to islam after understanding it. Accepted it with her heart and soul. I feel mainly for tht guy but she understood the religion.
3 weeks ago that guy got married and didnt even bother telling her. He went a head and did what his mother wanted and comes back to her saying "i love you " *hit. [that stupid girl] finally decided to back out and doesnt communicate with him in any manor.
You know when a girl goes against for a guy in front of her family and when that guy backs out.. YOu have simply destroyed her life.
why the F on earth men fall in love give girl delasey and in the end do what their mom want.... Fidiots..
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I like that word "fidiots". Oh and yeah, another one of those men are fidiots thread. boring...
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When i hear stories where people were together for such a long time emotionally and one day they just back out. They realize they simply cant do it cant fight to be with the one that they really want. It scares me.
then u need to work on urself more than anything girl
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I know i am not the type to get along with arrange marriages. and this love marriage thing is scary.
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we all think this way but trust me Allah has best n BESTEST for everyone on the face of this earth.
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What if the guy/girl leaves you in middle of no where.. what do you do after that
introduce yourself to a new person- introduction over and over again....
its scray how can you trust someone and know they wont leave your side?
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see the best way to deal with such thing is to stand up and say Alhamdullilah it happened...even though that makes u cry for sooo many nights but just saying that watever happened ...happened by the grace of Allah Almighty then you get stronger and firm in ur decision making. Yaar this love shove is nothing..wat can it do the most..hurt u ?? break u apart? emotionally unstable? and most of all love of who..a guy or a gal who is not even related to u ?compare to the love that u can get in return from family/siblings and most of all Allah (s.w.t). So my fren, u need to work on urself to make urself strong enuff to be mentally prepare for anything good or bad that comes to ur way. I know its pretty darn ez for me to type it all but if u for once think that how ppl are dying in middle east..trust me this takes away all the attention..at least it works for me :)
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Remember.......BEGGARS ARE ALWAYS LOSERS.
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I have to disagree with that. Parental/sibling/freind love is oen thing, its important, needed and irreplacable, but you cannot replace that with the love of another person, and same goes vice versa.
Nia--sometimes you just have to take a risk. There's no easy way to say it but u have to take a risk,maybe it'll pay off and maybe it won't. I'm an example, I went through a lot of hurt and stuff but i took the risk and i'm glad I did :)
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BEGGARS CAN'T BE CHOOSERS