Re: loosing control
gg, surely he's having himself a bit of fun. Not the kind of fun that a parent would approve of. But ask him "what kind of mom would this girl make if she happens to become pregnant?"...ask him "what kind of wife will this girl make if you persue this relationship?". Dont forbid him to see her but get him thinking about his future and the possible mistakes he could easily make for a few hours of romping fun that he gets with this gal. Get HIM to think about these things.