Re: Loose Sister 2
^ I stlil don’t get how its…what…Yea boii…said it wa sdoing? 
I know...turned out it was a guy in it.....man was I disappointed....
ewww.
even I'm disappointed.....neat how such a powerful pic can offend both genders.....
Re: Loose Sister 2
That is the objective of the picture. People see religion in such a limited prism of what is acceptable and what is not. The simple fact is that religion is not a limiting factor. It is a set of guidelines. Just because we follow those guidelines does not make anybody less of a man, woman or anything.
Oh yeah Sara I am going to explain what he meant in a PM. Easier that way.
He is a muslim and he is Pakistani as well.
So my problem is this:
I don't believe in teenage relationships. I believe in relationships though, but once you have accomplished certain things in your life.
My perspective is: work hard, make your parents proud, once you accomplish whatever they want and when you can lead an independent life then go do whatever the hell you want. (well of course I don't mean this literally - I mean go into relationships, but there are those basic limits, find someone who you are compatible with - muslim of course)
Plus I don't like the guy that much, I find him to be a "chichorah"........well in truth I don't know him that well - so I guess I should I find out more about him.
But still.....love at the age of 17.....pleaaaassseeee..... this is waaaaay toooo bollywood.
I think that at the age of 17, she has better things in life to focus on such as education, family.....rather than teenage love.
Listen. Take it from an unmarried girl getting older in age.
If she has found someone, provided they're not having sex, let them hang out. Meet the guy. Make it clear that you'd like for him to follow this up with marriage, and given it is 3 years, ask the guy directly what he thinks about marrying her within the next two years? Get the girl engaged now, if this boy is serious about it.
Nothing bad with nabbing a good kid early on.
Why do you think she shouldn't be in a relationship, apart from her age? Is she immature? Do you fear that she's having sex at this point? Do you think the guy is taking advantage of her? Do you think he's not serious? Do you think he's a loser, a moocher, a beqaar aadmi of sorts? Too old for her?
If there isn't any issue, I'd introduce him to the family.
Re: Loose Sister 2
waiting 4 that pm :D
Listen. Take it from an unmarried girl getting older in age.
If she has found someone, provided they're not having sex, let them hang out. Meet the guy. Make it clear that you'd like for him to follow this up with marriage, and given it is 3 years, ask the guy directly what he thinks about marrying her within the next two years? Get the girl engaged now, if this boy is serious about it.
Nothing bad with nabbing a good kid early on.
Why do you think she shouldn't be in a relationship, apart from her age? Is she immature? Do you fear that she's having sex at this point? Do you think the guy is taking advantage of her? Do you think he's not serious? Do you think he's a loser, a moocher, a beqaar aadmi of sorts? Too old for her?
If there isn't any issue, I'd introduce him to the family.
Marriage within the next 2 years, nope.
Means my parents will have to know about the relationship and that is not an option.
I understand what you are saying but my parents will be completely against this. They will not accept anything like this.
Apart from her age, I think the main reason for her not to get into a relationship is simply because my parents would not want it.
Well.....its all about age. My parents would not want it because like me they believe that at the moment there are other things in life to focus on such as education.
Out of the 3 siblings, my younger sister has broken all records for the lowest marks within the family and that too by a big margin. And too she is in a relationship with a guy for 3 years.
My younger sister is not doing anything good or anything that my parents want. On top of that, she is doing something which would come in their nightmares - being in a relationship with another guy.
She is not a religious person, she does not pray 5 times a day, she is the only one that answers back in the family, she is the only one with bad marks in the family.
The main point being she is not doing anything right or anything worthy of praise.
Some of you might think of this as very common issues and something which can be handled easily but the other main problem is - as i mentioned before - my parents.
If my parents find out then.......all is hell. My parents will not try to assess the situation and try to find a solution, they will just go ballistic and become sick.
About the dude, I know him briefly.
He is my age but in my younger sisters year. (2 years below me)
Never really liked him. Well.... the brief time I sort of used to talk to him, I was an extremely gullible kid so I used believe his bs.
After realizing that, I started to dislike him and - he might have changed I don't know about that - but based on my brief encounter with him ----> my judgment was: chichorapan
And this sounds funny but the first time I found out that my sis was going out with him, more than being pissed, what hit me more was.... how cheap her taste is.
My point being, when someone (esp ones brother) thinks like that straight away then there definitely has to be something wrong with the dude. The first thing I thought was.....HIM - how the hell can she go out with such a loser.
To me, he seems like an extremely cocky and chalaak dude. The guys he hangs out with are not nice guys. I really don't like his circle of friends and they all seem to have that typical teenage attitude - I'm my own boss - and I just hate such people. I know this for sure that I would not want him to be my friend.
My point is if the dude really likes her, he would give value to her family and if the girls family does not want their daughter to be hanging around with another guy then, the dude should tell her straight that what her family thinks is more important.
For instance, if i ever go out with a girl and i find out that her family will not be pleased to find out about me nor will they be happy with their daughter.......then I will stop going out with her for the sake of her family.