I have a friend who is looking to get married…I was talking to her the other day and found out that she has a proposal that her parents are considering…The guys is from a decent family, educated and pretty much everything sounds good…But she is reluctant to say Yes because he is apparently too good looking…
Her point of view is that good looking guys think too highly of themselves to worry much about their spouses…She is quiet pretty herself…I told her to go ahead with the proposal…
But I wonder, if that’s really true…do looks really matter when it comes to guys and that their attitudes are based on their looks…
it depends on the individual.....how self involved are they ...whether if they kno they have and loooks n some just use and abuse that fact.
in a relationship..........guess there wud b an element of insecurity.
but in terms of ur freind....i think she shud condier it..meet him and see how he is as a perosn.....may b he is genuinly decent guy with bonus of gud luks!
oh.......:D.... i think she is right... because some really good looking guys think too much of themselves.... which i think will go away once she gets to know him... so tell her to consider, speak with him.... get to know him, then i think she will go ahead without any problem...:)
Jazak Allah Khair
I think she needs to realise and set two things aside. Does she think the guy will not be as caring or loyal as she would like, or does she think because of the good looks combined and his finances alright, he'll be easily manipulated by other women, because lets face it, those other women who like men with a bit of money will have their claws out when they see one with good looks to add! Is she scared of the latter?
That can happen anyway even if she marries an ugly rich man.
^^^ rightly said, the whole basis of this thread and your friends idea of selecting people on looks is absurd. some people are not thankful i guess, people look for good rishta and when they find them, since when having good looks become a bad thing?
^^^ rightly said, the whole basis of this thread and your friends idea of selecting people on looks is absurd. some people are not thankful i guess, people look for good rishta and when they find them, since when having good looks become a bad thing?
That's basically what I was wondering...this is probably the first time I have heard someone feel that way...Usually people look past everything as long as they see a good looking guy who can give them a comfortable lifestyle...
As some people said in the thread...that most guys looks past their looks to be obsessed with themselves...But I do know a few guys that are so obsessed with themselves that it's almost insane...This person in my extended family was known for his good looks and he was insanely rich....He had an arranged first marriage but married for a second time after having three kids because he thought he deserved better...and he let everyone know of it...I think that's just sad...
I have already told my friend to consider it...I hope for the best of her iA...
I think she needs to realise and set two things aside. Does she think the guy will not be as caring or loyal as she would like, or does she think because of the good looks combined and his finances alright, he'll be easily manipulated by other women, because lets face it, those other women who like men with a bit of money will have their claws out when they see one with good looks to add! Is she scared of the latter?
That can happen anyway even if she marries an ugly rich man.
Why are girls after money these days...To me, it's like if you marry a really rich guy, what if he ends up losing his money somehow or if someone's not so rich but he hits a jackpot...it's all in Allah mian's hands...
Money can never buy you Happiness to your heart's content...I'd rather have a life where I am happy and contended with what I have rather than just having money...but If you can get both things combined..then u are pure lucky....
it depends on the individual.....how self involved are they ...whether if they kno they have and loooks n some just use and abuse that fact.
in a relationship..........guess there wud b an element of insecurity.
but in terms of ur freind....i think she shud condier it..meet him and see how he is as a perosn.....may b he is genuinly decent guy with bonus of gud luks!
i know many good looking rich guys. now the problem with them is they are too spoilt! everything has to be done for them. they like to have a ghar wali and also a bahar wali. fast cars, the lot.
are you worried that your gonna marry this guy just to look good by his side?
i think aslong as u get to know the person first then u know wat you are letting urself in to:)it's not really the looks that count its the person and his way of thinking.
I have a friend who is looking to get married....I was talking to her the other day and found out that she has a proposal that her parents are considering...The guys is from a decent family, educated and pretty much everything sounds good...But she is reluctant to say Yes because he is apparently too good looking...
Her point of view is that good looking guys think too highly of themselves to worry much about their spouses...She is quiet pretty herself...I told her to go ahead with the proposal...
But I wonder, if that's really true...do looks really matter when it comes to guys and that their attitudes are based on their looks...
so damn true.....tell her to consider other proposals as well and do istekara....
ma husband is very gud looking and muje tohra time tu laga un ko asmaan se zameen par lane ke leya :P
Why are girls after money these days...To me, it's like if you marry a really rich guy, what if he ends up losing his money somehow or if someone's not so rich but he hits a jackpot...it's all in Allah mian's hands...
Money can never buy you Happiness to your heart's content...I'd rather have a life where I am happy and contended with what I have rather than just having money...but If you can get both things combined..then u are pure lucky....
but they can definitely take you to paris for honeymoon :P