Looking good for someone else's spouse...

There I said it. Discuss social and emotional implications of looking good for someone else’s spouse.

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:ast: Simple answer. Jahanum key aag.

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^^ :eek: inspired by the thread in Life1, I believe . . .

It can be important if the one is spouse of your brother or sister just so he/she should know that his/her spouse dose not belong to a family where having a big tid is ok or the family has a bad sense of dressing etc . . I mean to say for the good will of brother/siste/friend/cousin you must look good to his/her spouse . . .

I hope I am making sense.

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What does the lines in your siggie means? pls translate :slight_smile:

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Well that is difficult especially for me because I am not that good at English . . . Let me try

"Oh My Home Land!! I loved you at that age, when I did not perceived things the way I perceive them today. . . . "

The poet wanted to express his love for home land that even when he did not knew any thing about life and stuff, he loved his country without knowing what love is . . .

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haha. Some people do it.

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I' sure nobody wants to look bad in front of anybody's spouse lol :p

But if you have "ulterior" motives, then you are wading into very dangerous waters....

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I love to dress up for someone else's spouse. I do it all the time. I get tons of compliments too and I don't get that type of attention from my own spouse.

They compliment me on my glowy skin, my choice to clothing. Some of them are much younger than me. It's a big ego boast.

I dress up for my male cousin's spouses :) and they even borrow my clothes sometimes.

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i dont post here much :(

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I dress for myself..and still get compliments...

Re: Looking good for someone else’s spouse…

Why jahanum ki aag!

Ok consider these two scenarios :-

Scenario A

A woman’s is missing after war or mistreats her or for some other legit/islamic reason she is filling for khulla. It appears to be an open £ shut case she will get the divorce through court. Now if someone is proposing her,when case is at final stage but she is still someone else’s spouse. Would it be inappropriate of this guy to maintain and look good for her?

Scenario B

The wife is giving her husband permission for second marriage (on completely legit and Islamic grounds). Would it be inappropriate for this other woman to maintain and look good for this potential rishta (keep in mind he is still someone else’s spouse).

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U don't post here much :(


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One should ALWAYS look one's best ! .........Now if someone else's spouse is appreciating the effort can you blame them !

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if someone does that to please someone elses spouse (the opposite sex) then there is something wrong. Even if they don't admit to it, but something smells fishy.

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yes, its is still wrong. . . until u complete ur after divorce period , it is haram .

For second case its the same becoz the second one is not under nikah of the male so they r doing haram deed

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:no:
whats wrong with the people :smack:

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I just love to look my best everyday, if there are others spouses staring at me I can't help it...they should know better their limits.

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No…all women do it ..whenever they go to a shaadi,dinner,market,etc etc etc

P.S :tomato:

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tuba tuba yaha kis shaytan pori chal rhi hay

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Tharkii...... hahaha