Re: Looking for sincere advice to save my family
I do not think you have tried to understand WHY things happened...you're just trying to put a band-aid on right now. Which is normal.
Please try to be objective and really think about what happened and why it happened. Until you do that, there will be no marriage or family. Its pointless to be with someone you're not happy with because kids pick up on that and grow up unhappy as well.
I can see you really love your children...listen to Sehrysh, go to Pakistan to try and resolve all of this. But try and acknowlegde your part in it too...as Xeno said...it takes two to tango.