I have a bit of a dilemma at the moment…Living in UK and trying to meet the woman of ur dreams is bit difficult. Reason being majority of the Pakistanis in this Country have come from very illiterate back grounds… E.G Mir pur…many of these ppl have not even seen Lahore and landed straight in London. To give u an example there was a time when some Pakistani women use to tie a piece of duppatta outside their house so they could recognise it when they come back from shopping. This example relates to the early days of migration from our fellow Pakistanis.
Anyhow not much has changed, young generation thrives on the site of a “joint” and girls include more “INNIT” in their speech then anything. The terms like “SOUTHALL MASSIVE”…“LEFF IT”..“ALLOW it” are common amongst our generation.
For my fellow citizens there is also an option of flagging ur red passport and landing in ur home country and picking ur wife like a bakra on barri eid, and hoping that she was worth it.
I cannot say that I am an angel myself, seeing the class of our people and their traits being world famous I verged towards relationships where the couple debate about which apartment to book in Monte Carlo on our holiday rather then “I like this shalwaar kameez”.
Spending my university years under the shadow of Caucasian and Mediterranean relations I have come to a stage to realise that marriage for a Pakistani is not just about urself but also about how ur spouse will get on with ur parents and etc etc.
So what option do I have? Taking “Maria” front of my mother and saying “don’t worry she will mix in.. There is not much difference between Spanish and Urdu”… or opting out for “INNIT..SHOUTHALL MASSIVE”.
Many of u will argue that there are Pakistani women who still preserve class matched only few, however in UK the cases of this is few and far between. Even so their head is so high in the clouds that even Liv Tyler would think twice before crossing paths with them.
To give u an example, a girl of true Arian background will be with you for who you, they have the looks and care, but at the same time sustainability is downside. Opportunity and availability is such in this country that as soon as ur relationship hits a down turn u don’t know what u in for. On the other hand a girl from south East Asian background may not have the class or the looks to match their counterparts but u can trust them on one thing, reliability.
On the other hand a girl from south East Asian background may not have the class or the looks to match their counterparts but u can trust them on one thing, reliability.<<<
That’s really interesting Devil… but have you ever asked a Mirpuri girl how she may feel about hung up Pakis such as yourself? What if they prefer a well erect Caucasian over a jackass such as yourself who is more worried about Class over synthesis. Chaltahai is right, UK can do that to you. Where the hell were you educated mate?
Very interesting. I know a Paki family living in europe who are going through somethiing like this. They are from a small town too, but looking for a girl for their son & a boy for their daughter from a big city in Pak. I think its ironic!
I met many very classy, educated and in general cool girls in UK. You are probably just looking at the wrong places. Or maybe you are not what they are looking for.
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For my fellow citizens there is also an option of flagging ur red passport and landing in ur home country and picking ur wife like a bakra on barri eid, and hoping that she was worth it.
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Why dont you just go to wales. You wont need a passport and you will be able to find a willing bakri even if it is not barri eid. Be careful though, if the bakri seems overly willing, it may be Xtreme in disguise.
Now ...Now....take is easy old chap....no need to brush up the blood pressure.... please read my comments carefully NY Ahmedi before you go into this whirlpool of fabricated comments. But dear sir with all due respect even if I try I will not be able to answer ur comments. Reason being you urself dervive from part of a pool whose forefather was a result of Colonial strategy....need I say more??????
Fraudz..I agree with you, please read my comments carefully and then read them again so you may have a better understanding.
The Greatful Dead, what can I say....ppl this is what I mean...he is from that region which I mentioned in my opening comments. The likes of him are the reason our country is number two in a certain achievement table, whereas Nigeria is one. I think educated minds will know what I am talking about. So old chap you are a very lucky being. Under Normal circumstances I charge money just to look at likes of u therefore u must be grateful I am at all referring to u.
He-Devil. Sweety, i don't know which little corner or lonely odd part of the UK you are from but speaking on behalf of the North...
My best friend is a Mirpuri and she is classy, traditional and beautiful. Well let me not discuss her no more because she has a gorgeus fiance too. Point being .. stop being so mean. Open up yourself first : ) not in a bad way but be positive. OF COURSE THERE ARE BEAUTIFUL INTELLIGENT EDUCATED TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE GIRLS IN THE UK ! If you believe it you might just find one...
.. Aap bhi line main hain kiya?!?! 