Looking Beautiful, Before or After Marriage?

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Some people love to take pride in their appearance and look good all the time. Others dress for the occasion and some dress up once in a blue moon.

I was just wondering, many people I’ve seen take so much care in looking nice before they marry, but once the marriage is sealed, they kind of let themselves go. Of course having children changes a few things, but I’m talking about before they even come into it.

There are people who take their time to look nice before marriage, because they know they could well bump into their future partner. And then there are others who don’t need to always look nice but then really make an effort to look pretty once they get maried.

**What do you think about this? Do you give importance to looking good at all times, would it end after marriage, or would it begin after marriage?
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I personally like to stay simple for now. Insha’Allah after marriage I’d take note of these sort of things. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and insha’Allah I’d like that to be my husband.
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Re: Looking Beautiful, Before or After Marriage?

i think its nice when my husband puts in the effort to dress up once in a while, it just makes me feel that he still cares about me, and i do the same. i think its important for people to not take advantage of their partners after marriage, just putting in a little effort makes a lot of difference.

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i’d def dress up after marriage bcoz she likes it that way…:salute: and a happy voti makes some nice tikka boti :blush: :hugz: :layd: …verna ager usko GHUSSA agaya to meri TIKKA BOTI ho jaye ge…:sara: :teary2:

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^ :rotfl:

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mhmm...i think id always want to look nice and take caer of myself
but iv seen some ppl get married and let go of thnigs

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i think we should always try to look nice.

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Personally i think u shud try to take care of urself.

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It should be before and after marriage. But I think a lot of times after marriage you don't have the time to do all the stuff to look good as you did when you were single. After kids, its a completely different story.

~~~ Missing someone ~~~
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all desis seem to let themselves go after marriage

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Re: Looking Beautiful, Before or After Marriage?

your topics annoy the hell outta me :rolleyes:

GS Supreme Court!
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^^

thanks:barbie:

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yeah thats my question WHY??

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I only look decent on an occasion

Because that is the only time i iron my clothes properly, wear make up, and make sure my eyebrows are done and my hair is right

I was like that before n after marriage and all down to the busyness of life and my love of sleep

Who'd wana be applying make up, n doing hair EARLY in the morning

That is my biggest put off on getting ready to a desired standard

And i wear horrid kapray at home

But i think when i do make the effort, i scrub up well.......so it makes it worth it :p

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Re: Looking Beautiful, Before or After Marriage?

when i will get married, i will let u know. :blush:

my take, however is this: both, men and women after they get married to their respective spouses, should strive to be themselves, but presentable. :halo:

marriage is an exciting thing, at no point in time, it should lose the momentum of being a RIDE of joys and sorrows, so to embrace all that, TOGETHER, one consolation can be that the other half is a p p e a l i n g, emotionally, psychologically, spirtually & of course physically (but not a stud (for men) or a pastry/trophy (for women)).:slight_smile: