Re: Long post- sorry in advance
Our culture is very complicated, we used to be very warm, generous to a fault cooking whole lambs, buying extravagant gifts etc and I was told that if you are overly nice with desi people it goes to their head and they think you are lower than them. They treated my wife exactly the way you are being treated. One family who had never set a foot in a luxury hotel, we paid for them to come with us we paid for 5 star rooms for them, bought them dinner in restaurants facing ocean etc and the moment we got back the lady found an excuse to yell at my wife. Canadian people haven’t been like that. Once we chased them off they begged for our friendship but my wife wasn’t interested. I would suggest dont limit to desis.