hmm is it after every 4 or 5 days or is it 4 or 5 days per week? waisay why see this measuring of your wife through specs of norms and average, she is an individual let her be . i would like to be left alone as well. mothers are special.
once our professor said
There is Chaos in Symmetry and there is Symmetry in Chaos......
similarly, Individuals in the society combine to define norms.