hi i m going to meet my boyfrnd for the fiirst time soon. but i m really worried. its not like i have never met him. we have been frnds since a long time but realised our feelings after he went abroad. parents have officially met, family is fine with it. its all official now. everything! i hav always longed to meet him bt now whn hez cmng thrz dis strange feeling in me. i donno i m happy,sad worried or what.
its like absence made our hearts grow fonder.. (we realised we were in love only when we were apart) so i m a bit worried tht will it b the same after we meet. will he like me as his gf. i know he luvs me truly and so do i.. bt i have whole lot of things going in my mind. wht do i do. how do i impress him and wht not to do.
and hey i have met him before many times have hanged out with him but we were just frnds then. i ve known him from like 15 years. but meeting him as my boyfriend for the first time. i m not uncertain i love him and so does he, i know. but i m scared wht if things wont be the same..
duriyan pyaar badati hai.. mujhe bus nazdekiyon se darr lag raha hai
please replyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy and help me..!! it will def give me comfort. thanks
Re: Long distance relationship.. first meeting for engagement
hi i m going to meet my boyfrnd for the fiirst time soon. but i m really worried. its not like i have never met him. we have been frnds since a long time but realised our feelings after he went abroad. parents have officially met, family is fine with it. its all official now. everything! i hav always longed to meet him bt now whn hez cmng thrz dis strange feeling in me. i donno i m happy,sad worried or what.
its like absence made our hearts grow fonder.. (we realised we were in love only when we were apart) so i m a bit worried tht will it b the same after we meet. will he like me as his gf. i know he luvs me truly and so do i.. bt i have whole lot of things going in my mind. wht do i do. how do i impress him and wht not to do.
and hey i have met him before many times have hanged out with him but we were just frnds then. i ve known him from like 15 years. but meeting him as my boyfriend for the first time. i m not uncertain i love him and so does he, i know. but i m scared wht if things wont be the same..
duriyan pyaar badati hai.. mujhe bus nazdekiyon se darr lag raha hai :(
please replyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy and help me..!! it will def give me comfort. thanks
Good for you.. congrats!
I felt the same when I realized that I will be getting engaged. I had all sorts of emotions running through me. So its normal...
If he truly loves you then you do not need to impress him.. he would love you just the way you are. Just remember, you are not the only one, he is going through pretty much the same thing.
Change is a way of live.. things dont stays the same forever so you should be sure that changing things is a risk you are willing to take to amke things better.
:) good luck.. let me know how everything goes
Re: Long distance relationship.. first meeting for engagement
Msani take ur time ... u r really emotional , better take ur time in making any ffinal decisions i knw how u feel n ur story is quite similar to minesss .... :)
Re: Long distance relationship.. first meeting for engagement
Msani take ur time ... u r really emotional , better take ur time in making any ffinal decisions i knw how u feel n ur story is quite similar to minesss .... :)
Re: Long distance relationship.. first meeting for engagement
just be urself and everything will be fine. ur getting too worked up about it. if u decided to get married...it must be becuz u care for one another so why go nuts over one meeting?
Re: Long distance relationship.. first meeting for engagement
i went through the same thing with my boyfriend.. we did realize we had feeling for each other when i was in canada.. but we didn't say anything and therefore become a couple after i had left canada! We had a long distance relationship for about a year before we first got to meet as a couple!! was sooo nervous!! i was pretty shy the first few hours, but we went out together and everything was fine after a while! just make sure you get to spend some time with him alone.. trust me, everything will be just fine once you get to be with him alone! :)
it'll be just like it when you talk to eachother on the phone or the net.. just waay better because for a change you will be able to look at each other!! :D
Re: Long distance relationship.. first meeting for engagement
I think you need to take a deep breath before going to see him, just be cool and yourself, i had the same situation, when i first met my husband after ages (he was my fiance then after being freinds for acouple of months and he had also gone abroad and was coming back to my house from airport) i was absoloutely crapping it! I couldnt even breathe properly, i was really nervous thinking the same stuff you are, that maybe he wont like me as a fiance/wife type as before we'd met as mates and i was reli cool and loud around him, this time around i'd definetly not have the balls to be the same cos u just have this sharam thing instantly in you haina? start feeling shy etc well i did. Anyway the way around it was to first of all take deep breaths before seeing him so you dont pass out infronta the guy lol and relax im sure he's feeling exactly the same. Its normal to feel like this, but relax it will be ok and good luck x x x
And i so agree with miea spending time alone is crucial, yes the first few minutes maybe even hours can be nervewracking but trust me after that you'll be just like before all relaxed, also if he's coming to ur house then chilling with him n ur bro n sisters can work to, it did for me, my siblings help break the ice by cracking jokes etc BUT definetly no DADs in the room lol i couldnt even look my fiance inthe eye with my dad inthe room, not that my dad would say something but its again just i shyness thing.
Re: Long distance relationship.. first meeting for engagement
errm.. what’s wrong with being alone? I mean, she’s gonna marry the guy!! And it sounds like a love marriage to me, so they must have spent some time alone to know they like each other in the first place..
i spent time alone with my boyfriend before we decided to become a couple.. i don’t know about you, NomiCA, but i know i have enough self-control and Allah in my heart to know that i won’t let the devil take over.. :S
