I think people who live apart while being married are basically losers. what do you think?
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^ i think you a loser ![]()
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Long distance marriages are definitely not for the weak at heart.
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I don't think anyone enjoys long distance marriages but there are reasons behind them. I only know one or two girls who were involved in them and it was because they were waiting for their husbands to get immigration.
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It's difficult for a marriage to remain a 'marriage' while being
long distanced. There's only so much distance a person
can endure in any relationship. And marriages definitely
can't bear any of it.
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i don't believe this i also came from pak after 3 months of my marriage, and i think marriage chahay long distance ho ya close it all depends on ur luck, luck achi ho to har kisam ki marriage kamyab hoti hay.....this is all what i think about this
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Yes they are. They think they are in love ![]()
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It is ****ty ... my parents were apart for a couple of years, due to sacrifices they were making for us the kids, and really it wasn't good for their health.
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It is like being a bachelorette but nobody bothers you anymore and asks you stupid questions about when you are going to find you a man!
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okay then. wat??
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i think people who declare others loser should be under 15.
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^Yes your right, a friend of mine she is also married for 2 or 3 yrs or something and
her husband is still in Pk and she live’s in Uk with her sis in law. Before her marriage she live’s in Holland but for her husband immigration and papers ect she moved to Uk.
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i wont even call them married…end of discussion..![]()
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Ghilail.. I agree in some cases.. there is a gentleman we know that has a wife in Pak (he has been here 15 yrs). Before he left he had 3 kids and came here to US for a job. He calls home once a week and talks to wife and kids.... you know... after shushing his girlfriend. He hasn't gone back in 15 yrs, all he is is a paycheck at this point. I don't know. I like it that he takes care of his responsibilities, but I think marriage is very unfair in instances like that. It is a no-win situation for the wife while it seems the guy is living here with a girlfriend and doing as he likes.
But I also know some that send for their families within days of getting their green cards usually after a couple of years. The committment was there, just not the means.
Depends on the people involved and their goals...
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I was apart from my hubby for 3 years waiting for his visa to come to uk. Prior to this I spent 2 years with him in Pak.
It's tough being apart for that long but it's worth it in the end.
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Thats the one thing desi’s depend on for everything. LUCK.
haye meri qismat..haye meri qismat. They never go any deeper than that.
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seems as though you are experienced in this topic. ![]()
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rb, tussi great ho. ![]()
I could never live away from my wife for more than a couple of months. If not for anything, just the physical needs would drive me crazy.