re: long distance husband/fiance
Okay that’s good. Personally, I wouldn’t worry about the ‘lapse’ in attraction, if you like, which he showed. It seems like you guys have been married for years but not living together, so it must have been quite hard on both of you. As long as he is showing commitment now, that’s the important thing. You should focus on preparing for the wedding and life afterwards. You’re both happy as of now - so why ruin it by trying to overthink?