Just know that the best Listener is Allah.. n whenever u get those negative feeling n it is totally okay to feel that way cause you are going through alot so it is okay… Just sit on prayer mat n whatever is going through your mind just tell everything to Allah like you are telling to a friend cause He will never get tired of listening to it… n at the end you will have peace n the best sleep..
it does not mean u will not feel bad the next day but do same thing n inshaAllah Allah will make it easy for you with every passing day and you will start feeling better n at peace with everything!
Lots of prayers for you sister 
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Don?t grieve at the stab.
It?s only meant to free you.
From the chains that bind you to the earth
and shackle you to the shadows of people.
The mirage of water cannot quench.
But is so beautiful to the thirsty.
I?m afraid. Of never knowing another life.
Different. So different.
If I let go, will You take me higher?
Above grief, want, loss.
Above all that I?ve ever known.
Take me higher. Unbind me from the earth.
Like a vaccine, it sickens, to make you stronger.
The stab is temporary. The freedom, eternal. Yasmin Mogahed
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That was sweet, thank you. I rely on gupshup for straight and good advice thats why i come to you guys
whatever you do, don’t contact him anymore. someone throwing in the towel like that is not worth it. stop making excuses by saying he internalises things until he can’t hack it anymore and thats why the sudden upheaval. no. he’s a grown arse man who should’ve learnt the value of communicating with his WIFE before he just decided “yeah time to cut”.
listen, men are everywhere and you’ll find that in time you can love someone else - focus on yourself. is this really worth getting yourself into a state over? ask yourself.. if you had a daughter and she went through something like this.. what would you tell her? how would you want her to be feeling right now? act on that. show yourself some love and just focus on all the good things you still have in life.
I’m trying to stop questions (only to myself and you guys), it comes naturally though. but I promise I’m trying. maybe one day I can look back and be fully accepted of this.
@akaprincess yeh raz ki bat to bata dein. keh aap oss se itni sharafat se Q paish aa rahi hein??? mera to yeh khayal tha keh abhi tak aap oss ko bhaingen jaisa bana ke bazar mein bhaich chuki hongi.
yeh ma’ajra kia hai. Yaa sirf humaray naseeb mein surkh mirchon ka Dhair hi lekhi gain thein. kia baghair mirchon ki laRkiyan khass order par banti hein???
Please explain, what you wrote is very confusing especially with all the food references
English is such a weird language. 
. like the way I see it. girls are like fire .. 24/7 ready to burn anything that tries to cross their path.
unke hat . paon . mou sub aik saat chalte hein .. oor to oor un ke qareeb ki cheezien bhi uRthi hein or nishane par lagti hein … Their nails are sharper than knives.(it hurts so much, I wish they knew) jo samnay ho on ka to hashar ho jata hai … or mard bicharay ki itni himat kahan ke aatish fishan ke samnay tehr sake.
on the contrary, I find you very calm, no fire works, the guy is still walking and talking all in one piece. His face is still original, no purple marks (egg plant is white in other parts of the world but purple in desi land, so reference to bhaingen ) and no scratches .
so my question why are you so cool? what’s going on here. Second part was: If you are original, and this no fire works kind does exist. Where do they come from??? (just curious)
and where do you come from???
being sad, depression, crying and related stuff is suppose to be there, All this is what makes you human.
aap ka to baRa hosla hai .. yeh humaray jaise bhi hote hein jo baghair ki waja ke hawa song kar udass ho jate hein.
You know, the guy was lucky to have someone cool, no fireworks and stuff. his loss. kisi ki bad dua lagi hogi warna mard konTe se bandhe bail ki tarah hote hein.
and fikar not … This love thingy is better, keep it there for as long as possible. When you are in love you smell better, your eyes reflect light in a different way and it looks cool. You can experience it yourself, find a girl in love in your neighbourhood, and experience the difference.
(you may know it without looking for the girl. The term fall guy. Like you are out of a relationship and the next irritating thing would happen right after. This fall guy is always there just round the corner. If you are still in love, he falls for signs of your previous love, cuz every thing looks cool you smell different, you eyes are different, vibe is different all together, That poor souls falls for it, after couple of months the recovery process is in full swing and the guy feels like this is not what he bargained for, and relationship falls apart… keep in mind the fall guy)
Don’t forget, the sea is full of fish … aise aise log Allah ne banay hote hein … Love ka yaad rehna to door ki bat sans lyna banda bhool jata hai.
Have fun enjoy your cool.