LOL Wedding night issue

[Sannan]

Re: LOL Wedding night issue

@TLK

For the third question, two things can be done.

1. Be bold about it. People (your in laws, if they noticed) would actually appreciate it that you did not leave your fajr even on your wedding night. Go out around early morning and do your ghusl.
2. Another thing that can be done (and not so difficult as rukhsati and other rasm dont finish till like 3 in the morning) is that delay that actual “act” till after fajar, and then sleep in till noon time.

@M_was_here

What I dont understand is, why are you feeling obligated to have sex yet you can’t even change in front of him or bring these issues up yourself to him? Why on earth would you want to have sex w/ someone you aren’t even that close with?! It’s not compulsory to have sex the first night, is it? I dont know, I dont understand how some couples can do this yet feel too shy to bring up REAL issues. IMO, get to know him first before you guys do it.

main aap key inqalabi sooch say buhat mutasir howa hoon :cobra: