diwana
December 26, 2011, 4:03am
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Re: LOL Wedding night issue
All Muslim women are LIBERATED women, because Islam was on the fore front of securing rights for women (financial, property & marital). Does Bibi Khadija ring a bell?!?! She was a liberated, self employed entreprenuer (oh the horror!!!). That is why there is the mahavara “What’s mine is mine, but what’s YOURS is also mine!”. If I choose to share my earnings, inheiritance etc with my husband, good, but it’s MY choice. He has no say in MY decisions. And THAT has been given to by Allah SWT. If god forbid, something goes south, I have my haq mehr, and it’s MY choice, whether I want to forgo it or not. So right there, your pathetic, chauvanistics views are without merit.
Secondly, your cavemen like views on “marital rape” disgust me, because I have seen firsthand how “marital rape” works. My deceased mother (allah unko jannat naseeb karay) worked tirelessly with Texas Muslim Womens Foundation & Muslim Community Center for Health & Human Services, and believe me, there are many, many, many Muslims husbands who rape, yes, RAPE their wives. One of my mother’s pet projects that she was working on before she passed away was a domestic violence shelter in our city for Southeast Asian women (and men, because yes, men are victims of domestic violence as well). It’s not “women’s lib” or being a “feminazi”..it’s called COMPASSION, something you severly lack.
Peace Out.
Just to clarify once for all: Marital rape is a made up term.
A rape is a rape. That’s all. No such thing as marital rape.
The rape is over-called and over utilized by few and search at your leisure why so many people in the world are disgusted by femenazi’s version of what to call a rape.