LOL Wedding night issue

[Sara516]

Re: LOL Wedding night issue

@Demesne

^ I did not claim that the husband should force himself on her.

Valid reasons such as illness I can understand.** Emotionally drained? Fearing physical harm? Some women take undue advantage of these two random reasons. What possible physical harm is there in the act? Unless she is pregnant and the act might cause harm to the pregnancy, and there are ways around that too**, what other physical harm is she fearing?

@Demesne

To each their own interpretation of Islam and their duties. **Technically there should never be an argument, the wife is supposed to give in. **After all, there is a hadith proclaiming that if ever you were to bow down to anyone other than Allah, then it should be the husband because of the greatness of his rights over you.

@Demesne

This is just a ridiculous example.
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“closure”. Such a western concept.
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If a husband calls, you are supposed to answer. It’s very clear cut.

@Marmalade

I never realized marriage is supposed to be so miserable.

Demesne why do your posts always make me nauseous?

@Demesne

Marital rape. Sara, sometimes I wonder where you get these ideas from. There is severe lack of comprehension on your side when you read my posts because never do I mentioned marital rape nor do I to my knowledge paint marriage as a life of misery. Marriage is a beautiful and sacred bond IMO, and anyone who believes so personally will not color what I say like this. The only ones who will read negatively into what I have posted thus far are possibly those who fear marriage or are unhappy in their own.

What else do you call it when you make it seem like a wife has absolutely NO choice but to submit to her husband, where even pregnancy doesn’t exempt her from having to please him sexually? Where making ti seem like she’s the cause of every argument?

You may not call that marital rape, but none of that ^ sounds like it has any place in a loving and happy marriage.

and PS, nice try