LOL Wedding night issue

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Re: LOL Wedding night issue

This is just a ridiculous example.

“closure”. Such a western concept.

If a husband calls, you are supposed to answer. It’s very clear cut.

@redvelvet

What if the couple has had an argument….and there hasn’t been any closure and he wants to have sex…should she give in even then? What pleasure would he get from that? One of my married friends (yes, Muslim) once said that it annoys her when her husband desires physical intimacy when she’s still upset about an issue. So, are illness and fatigue the only acceptable reasons. I understand that both parties need to be considerate of one another…but I’d like to be believe that Allah is a lot more understading/merciful…and not so black and white as some people make Him out to be.