Do you limit your life or live in fear of what “others” will say about your actions? Do you measure the “rightness” or “wrongness” of your conduct by others’ opinions?
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Yes......the 'others' include my parents and friends mostly...........
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I find that the older I get...the less I care about what others thinks about me. It's a change (I even consider it a growth) within myself that I've become very aware of.
As for your second question, usually i don't feel comfortable within myself if my conduct was ill...and I do make the effort to apologize. I also try to take into consideration the other person's perspectives in making that determination. It's not always the case that just because somebody thinks I'm wrong...that I'll think of myself as wrong. I will ask my family and sometimes close friends their opinion about a situation. My parents, for example, don't defend me just because I'm their daugther...same thing with my siblings. They will acknowledge where I was right...and where I was unreasonable. So, there are certain individuals whom I trust will give me an unbiased opinion...and I take that into serious consideration.
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not a huge amount. prolly what my close family/friends think of choices i might make. but for the most part i don't really have time to look over and see whose life is being affected by something that shouldn't be of a concern ot them int he first place. i also tend to have a certain trust on decisions i make so maybe thats why..
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Used to. Not so much anymore, though I do take into account advice from my Mom and bro and a couple other people who I know have my best interest at heart.
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Do you limit your life or live in fear of what "others" will say about your actions? Do you measure the "rightness" or "wrongness" of your conduct by others' opinions?
I dont act in a way where people start talking about me and my action.
No, my dil and mind are two sources of righteousness and wrongness of my action. if i do wrong then I could not sleep well.
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So you are an undercover mil here 
i didn’t even know
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Nops.
They call me rude as well ..
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my heart
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I used to.
Not as much anymore...
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used to, was good for everyone but me
now i don't.
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My attitude has ussually been very much out of the ordinary.
I dont care what people think about me, love me, hate me, fear me... whatever so long as you remember me.
A journey through life has led me to beleive that nothing comes before me and my fammily and my thoughts and actions as long as I can reasonably defend them then it does not matter what anyone else thinks.
Yeah call me maverick, rude, arrogant whatever but I like this and I would not change my ways for the whims of others.
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I will admit that I do. It's due to hearing "Log kya kehenge" for years and years. I'm always thinking about that, just can't shake it off.
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i never have and never will ...the only thing i think about before doing anything is...if i do this will i still be able to stand before Allah on the day of judgement with my head held high or will I have to hang my head in shame...
apart from that the other thing that guides me is if there is something that i do that i cannot let my parents be aware of...it's probably wrong...cuz my parents are very open-minded though still within the bounds of islam...so yeah these two things are my moral compasses ...
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I never did and I still don't... I have always done my own thing.
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A well wisher once advised me " we don't live for people " isliye never bother about log kiya kahangey
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yeah
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Sehrysh yee kaisa thread open ker deya hai? loog kia kaheen gai 
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I used to .... not so much anymore.....