Desi follows the philosophy ’ Hum rehte to apne gharon main hain, lekin wo hawa jis main hum saans lete hain wo bahir se aati hai’
All their lives, they act according to wishes and fear of society / community / biradri, etc.
If you want to marry your daughter in other community, question arises ‘log kia kahen ge?’
If you are against Jahez, you have to give Jahez because of this ‘Log kia kahenge?’
It seems that this ‘log kia kahenge’ is a yardstick for people’s life in Desi culture and all the vices be it Jahez, show-off, etc are attributable to this ‘log kia kahenge’.
Whats you opinion on this issue?
Do other cultures also follow this ‘log kia kahenge’.
Kuch bhi karo logon ki zabanein pakari to nahi ja saktin
Logon ki zabanen pakRi nahin ja sakti lekin phir bhi inn baton ko bura manene wale un logon ki baton pe amal kiyun karte hain? kia ye khulla tazaad nahin?
BTW, do you personally follow this 'log kia kahen ge'?
Ok Asif on a serious note what you do think is the action in our society, for which people are afraid of hearing 'log kia kahenge'... agar koi apni beti ko taleem na dilae ya phir beti ko jahez na de?
maine kahin paRha tha ke duniya main 2 tarah ke log hote hain.. ek fitratun naik log jo kuch bhi ho jae, koi kuch bhi kahe seedhi raah nahin choRte.. doosre Bund log (closed personalities), jo naiki bhi logon ko dikhane ke liye karte hain aur burai se tab tak bachte hain jab tak wo logom ke samne hon.
What do you think which type of people are in majority?
