how many of you believe that living with your inlaws is a good thing and how many of you actually be willing to do that??
i think its an arrite thing... and i'd prob end up doing that...
been discussed here as well 
i dont think id have a problem with it considering the in-laws are cool, fun ppl, ya know? i mean problems to har family main sometime or the other hoti hee hain when u have soo many ppl living together.
if things do work out with the guy i mentioned in my thread then im gonna be living with 4 brothers in law and their parents…
i live with my inlaws and simetimes i do wish for my own place.. but mostly i find ts better because its liek a hugee security blanket and an assurance no matter what.. we r not alone..
I'm not gona HAVE any inlaws :D...or that slob popularily known as "The Husband" :D
liven where and how isnt a manz prob…wifez decied it…:k:
i disagree with u. it does depend on the husband to a certain extent also. its not fair for a woman to take her hubby away from his parents coz he feels its his responsibility to take care of them. ofcourse its a different story if the parents want the couple of move out.
Man, :o
I must say it tux :o
one of my brother in law lives with us (6 months now) and never had any problem as he respects our privacy and we never had any problems.
well most of the time either he is out, or sleeping or watiching TV in his room.
When my bro gets married InshaAllah, I wouldnt want his wife to abandon my parents, so I belive that I should stay with my inlaws also. I mean afterall, they wouldve raised my husband and it would be his duty to take care of them in old age.
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i disagree with u. it does depend on the husband to a certain extent also. its not fair for a woman to take her hubby away from his parents coz he feels its his responsibility to take care of them. ofcourse its a different story if the parents want the couple of move out.
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yeah but u see my parents are havin a damn busy life of their own and al hell lotsa activity goin on at our house...IF my wife wud like to get a new house and live there its ok .....no prob ..we can always be in touch with her and my partents when ever need rises....
Nice topic
I think that it rele depends on the individual situation. In fact I would like to live with my in-laws…my future mother in law is VERY sweet and my sister in-law..well she’s basically like my sister, without the in-law..
however since my fiance will be working in NY and his family lives in PA..its prete impossible for us to live together..however, my fiance says that we’ll visit them every weekend..
you know what.
if you r living with them , then you want to stay from them, but if you r not living then still you want to stay away from them
hehehe
I plan on eventually having my in laws live with us.
I would never want my parents to live alone in their old age and would feel horrible if my husband's did.
My inlaws did not plan on actually staying with us, rather they wanted to buy a house near us or "next door" as my mother in law says...but we wanted to do like fraudia says having an "in-law" suite/master bed room type room in our home on the first floor (for elderly people first floor rooms are best). recently my father in law was diagnosed with a disease that potentially could leave him very disabled and ill...so though living with/near us was a potential far in the future it looks like it'll happend sooner.
amelie
if one is unable to build a master suite on teh ground floor, you can always install those mechanized chair lifts.
There are 2 diff schools of thought on this topic. if the rest of teh family's quarters are upstairs then you are not close to them if they need something during the night, plus they may not get peace and quiet if they are in a room close to trh family room and den. they will have more privacy upstairs as well.
it depends though, on people's circumstances and needs.
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amelie
if one is unable to build a master suite on teh ground floor, you can always install those mechanized chair lifts.
There are 2 diff schools of thought on this topic. if the rest of teh family's quarters are upstairs then you are not close to them if they need something during the night, plus they may not get peace and quiet if they are in a room close to trh family room and den. they will have more privacy upstairs as well.
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True, My experience has been that edlers have heart/joint problems that make climbing a flight of stairs difficult if not dangerous. Chair lifts are an option but very expensive and god forbid in case of a fire....
I guess everyone should give it a try and if things seem to go wrong way one can always move out because if things work well then living with in-laws has more advantages than disadvantages.
i think it is fine to living with ur inlaws ....... well i think living with inlaws has more advantages then dis advantages .
right :k: