Baqi living with inlaws can have many benefits,
miljul kar ghar ke kaam karna,
agar baimaar ho jao, there is always someone to take care of you and your children,
you can leave your children home agar bahir jana ho tau, no need to hire babysit.
and many more…
haan shayad kuch inlaws kharan hote hain,
but i have seen a lot who are nice
and if ir works out then what can be greater than it?
Haan you’ll be having less privacy maybe, but a lot can be done abt that:
going out together etc,
It was narrated from 'Uqbah ibn Amir [radiyyallahu anhu] that Rasulullah [sallallahu alaihi wa salam] said: "beware of entering upon women." A man from among the Ansaar said, " Ya Rasulullah, what about the in-law?" He [sallallahu alaihi wa salam] said, " The in-law is death."
When I have heard this interpreted before, it seems most scholars use it to refer to the importance of showing modesty and keeping separation from brothers-in-law in particular because of the potential for improper romantic relationships or temptation. In fact, most of the scholars I've read who addressed this emphasized the importance of not having brothers-in-law living in the same house. They didn't emphasize separation from parents/parents-in-law.
Actually I am thinking about living with my inlaws. I really want to because 1. I like them 2. They can take care of my future children iA when we're both at work. This is a a very situation dependent question...Some poeple do great with their in laws and really jive with them, others don't. You know your relationship with your inlaws the best so make your own pro/con list, and determine what you need to need to to do accordingly.
It was narrated from 'Uqbah ibn Amir [radiyyallahu anhu] that Rasulullah [sallallahu alaihi wa salam] said: "beware of entering upon women." A man from among the Ansaar said, " Ya Rasulullah, what about the in-law?" He [sallallahu alaihi wa salam] said, " The in-law is death."
When I have heard this interpreted before, it seems most scholars use it to refer to the importance of showing modesty and keeping separation from brothers-in-law in particular because of the potential for improper romantic relationships or temptation. In fact, most of the scholars I've read who addressed this emphasized the importance of not having brothers-in-law living in the same house. They didn't emphasize separation from parents/parents-in-law.
this refers to how the brother in law is death not in laws , u ppl are ridiculous
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