Living with in laws and space

[Paheli00]

Re: Living with in laws and space

@ruby17

She is still fairly Young but she spends most of her day at home so doesn’t see many people and as the only other female in the house or only one willing to listen she perhaps thinks I am really interested (my husband I’ve noticed just looks totally disinterested or wanders off so she doesn’t say much to him).

@ruby17

my husband is always the one who drags me away when it is getting close to my bedtime otherwise I would be there all night. **Maybe I should ask him to do it an hour or two earlier so we have a bit of time to unwind before bed.

I guess I can also ask him to try to show more interest in her interests so I can get away and do my things.**

You already know what the problem is and already have 2 great solutions.

1. Ask your husband to end the night about an hour earlier than he does right now.

2. Tell him that he needs to spend time with and show some interest in HIS mother! There is no reason why he can’t spend at least an hour every evening talking to her while you un-wind/take some time for yourself. In return you can also spend a bit of time with her so he can go un-wind.