PCG, do you get a premarital kick out of being crude?
Personally - in an ideal situation I would like to live with my partner before marrage. I am too young to commit the rest of my existance to someone - unless I know that every crevice every wrinkle and dimple is compatable with mine. I am sure that he will probably feel the same. It is difficult imo to jump into the arms house and bed of a stranger.
WIth marrage it is a public statement. Saying that you are so in love with this individual that you want to stake your claim to them on the world stage. You want everyone to know that you are togeather and this person is your better half. That they complete you. It is a symbol of your "love".
but thats the whole point of getting married. to figure out everything about one another as a couple..TOOOGETHER. doesnt mean u have to jump into a strangers bed, but its funner to find out things about him/her that u never knew existed. in the end u just want a best friend :(
Fine.ur answer was good,but i’ll add something as well.people have tendencies to have a sex and take a brake,have a sex and take a brake,hav a sex and take a brake have a…and so on:teary2: how u think do they realy becomes attached? i dont think so. i’ll 1 more question why we have given sex?
Religiously, we have been endowed with it to “procreate,” which might not be in the original plan as it is the satan who is cursed for infusing such an urge in humans. :o
It is very objectionable for having been given sense of it. Since we have, we shall procreate sensibly till we protest to the Creator that why indeed He gave us sense of it.
i believe that sex is given to have a children.but as well it is way how we become united with our partner.it is given us to make our marriages strong.and therefore if we change our partners so often we lose this ability:D .
I've never heard that concept in Islam. All I was taught was that whatever goes on between a husband and wife is halal and the idea of sex for ONLY procreation makes no sense whatsoever. That idea brings to mind a cruel and strict God, that we would be blessed with the ability to enjoy sex and feel guilty for it.
Sara: whaz the reason behind this topic....still thinkin.....
Secondly, it depends on you if u wanna get married or just wanna live together and have sex.. Personally i know, couple of people, livin together have kids and not married yet, their explanation is " we dont need a certificate to live together,we love each other thatz all" haven’t came across any desi couple tho...if u knw someone...share ur experience.
No reason behind this topic I was just curious. :)
Honestly, I think living togehter w/o marriage is cheap, disrespectful and undermines the sanctity of marriage. It's bad enough they're single, it's just irresponsible and plain stupid to do it when children are involved, multiple fathers, it makes for an unstable home life, in my opinion.
i dont think so. i’ll 1 more question why we have given sex?
