Re: Living together and getting married
IMO if you have already been living with someone for a number of years then marraige is a mere formality. If you love someone enough and get along with them enough to be living with them as a couple then whats a piece of paper going to do? As mama said marraige is a solemn vow...till death do us part, but do you really need an official ceremoney to declare that? To me a divorce and a break-up with someone you are living with would take the same toll sans the labels and if you decide someone is good enough for you to live with then you might aswell be married to them first.