Living near girls parents not in laws

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Re: Living near girls parents not in laws

@naima27

Thanks Paheli. That’s what I thought too. Just that my mother questioned it and then the other day I was telling a friend about our plans and she was asking if In laws are ok with me moving to my parents hometown. Obviously in our culture there are certain expectations and norms that people conform to eg girl lives with guys parents but never the other way around and although this isn’t me moving into my parents home it might still be frowned upon by some I guess…

you are right about cultural expectations and there is that log kia khaein ge bit too … BUT

1. the gossipers arnt living your life and arnt dealing with your problems/needs
2. you will be a topic of conversation only for a moment before the next new haw hai issue becomes en vogue
3. many of our cultural norms/expectations are silly and need to change. the only way to change is to step up and be the change.

do whats best for your family.