Living in Pakistan?

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Re: Living in Pakistan?

@Sasha21

I think ppl are not grasping the amount of control that OPs dad has on her and other family me members. I think what she’s trying to say that if she is in the vicinity he wwill somehow make her do what he wants. And it’s easy for ppl to say k just say no to him, but when u have done things for years it’s difficult to go another way especially when u know that ur mom/siblings will have to face his wrath if u displease him.
OP I think u can live a good life in Pakistan IF ur husband is well off. He is not dependent financially on his family. He is the sort to give ur relationship priority if things go sour with ur in laws. Or that he at least back u up while u live in the same house.

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1- at what distance does his control end. 100 miles, 500 miles, 1000 miles?
2- regardless of how far she is if her siblings and mom will face wrath..they will face wrath..