Re: Living in difficult people
If a girl is living in a situation with people who don’t care about her physical or emotional well-being, then it will be very hard for her to move out. Even white, black, Mexican etc. girls in these situations have a VERY hard time.
In America, the only thing that can prevent a girl (ANY girl - being desi doesn’t matter) from moving out and living independently is herself. It’s not difficult to get a job (ANY job) to earn enough money to pay rent/bills. I moved out right after college so I speak from experience. Parents and others may not be happy and will give lots of taanay, but that happens no matter what you do. For someone living in the situation your described, life is not easy even living in that situation. At least if they move out, they have control and can choose to surround themselves with people who will support them emotionally.