but....i have another approach..
all ladies living away from home alone and worried about a life of sin, contact me
if we do muttah, i become a mehram. I dont think there is a limit on number of muttahs, but if there is i will have to rotate muttah recipients and if the demand is high I can franchise the service out.
dont worry, i will maintain strict quality control, meaning you will never have to deal with a TLK type. I mean copycat deep discount services may...pop up, but they simply will not have the..staying power.
ive been born/raised in pakistan..went abroad for a few months on a scholarship..lived on my own..came back and had an arranged marriage..where my parents told my husband's family and the other potential rishta families..all about my scholarship and studies abroad..and it was never an issue..rather they admired my educational experience!: ) ..educated families will not bother with this at all!
but....i have another approach..
all ladies living away from home alone and worried about a life of sin, contact me
if we do muttah, i become a mehram. I dont think there is a limit on number of muttahs, but if there is i will have to rotate muttah recipients and if the demand is high I can franchise the service out.
dont worry, i will maintain strict quality control, meaning you will never have to deal with a TLK type. I mean copycat deep discount services may...pop up, but they simply will not have the..staying power.
kitne generous hain aap lol personally i don't find it sinful to just be living on your own away from family. It's the person's behaviour which matters and that won't change whether they live at home and away. If someone wants to do something they can do it living with their parents as well using some other excuse.
thinking about it wouldn't it be potentially better if the girl lives away by herself then at home? that shows she can be independent, manage a home and cook etc. i'm sure things that potential rishta families look for. You are more likely to get pampered and not have to do as much if you live at home compared to living on your own.
Than You, I try to help this world in my own way, its tough, but someone has to take the initiative.
good to be proactive than just be a bystander. Good to take that initiative.
i dont think it should affect rishtas at all. I think it would be a positive because it shows you have lived a bit of the world and you know how to live independently and you're not completely dependent on parents. if someone disagrees they are not worth it.
i dont think it should affect rishtas at all. I think it would be a positive because it shows you have lived a bit of the world and you know how to live independently and you're not completely dependent on parents. if someone disagrees they are not worth it.
Ive lived away from parents (them being in another country and me here in lahore) for 7 years of college and then medical school and i lived ALONE,not with relatives. Initially my relatives tried warning mom and advising not to gt me a car and send to hostel but when she ignored,all got back to minding their business eventually.
It was taken as a plus during rishta process (I kept getting proposals etc) and no one judged on this living alone basis ever. They actually tooi it positively knowing that i was capable of living and managing alone confidently
I think in today's day and with people who value education you will never have an issue. If people value a bahu that can make a parata more or question why ahe lived away from home they will have problems. People who have issues will always have issues. Surround yourself around like minded people. Don't give in to such pressures.