Thats what I thought.
Veni, vidi, vici.
Thats what I thought.
Veni, vidi, vici.
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I got a hijaab for my 4 year old as she needs it during her wudhu and namaz session in school. Like all little girls she looks absolutely adorable in it MA! But thats the only time she wears it.
I admit that I find hijaab very very cute on little girls but I do not really promote the idea of wearing it on daily basis where ever they go…let them be kids.
I saw one of my class mate’s 2 year old daughter wearing hijaab in a shaadi , she was so clueless about it and was having a hard time keeping it on. Poor thing was not even able to play and run.
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Ironic that a “proud muslim” would say that. There are no churches in Mecca.
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TT, I have seen little girls in hijab and while it does irk me a bit, I never really think that it is forced. It bothers me in the same way I see little girls wearing crop tops with short shorts. While there is an explanation for the former, there isn’t one for the latter example. To be completely honest, I would rather see the hijab than the short shorts.
What five year old gets a choice in what she wears anyway? Maybe the parents didn’t notice that the hijab was bothering the girls. Only they can tell you whether they are are forced to wear it or not.
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Islamic or not, still freedom of their parents to choose what their kids wear right?
How come you seem to be judging what should be Islamic and how it should be practiced when all you saw is kids wearing niqab/hijab while shopping?
Come on. those kids had nothing to do with you by any means and yet you decided to pass your judgement.
You are comparing apples with oranges.
it does not ''always" matter what people do in their bedrooms but if what happens in people’s bedroom affects society then it CAN be anyone’s business. I mean the “aftermath or extension” …of what happen in bedroom can still affect the society.
I know your possible answer. But that can be discussed in detail somewhere else. ![]()
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Um no but nice try!
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I can’t take anything you say seriously diwana. You reached troll status a long time ago.
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Same answer to both of you.
Is that it? ![]()
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You know TT after reading this thread i am thinking of this one thing, when babies are little, about 4-5 months old they usually dont like to be dressed, they feel so happy naked. By passing of time they get habit of putting cloths on but there are still few of them showing frustration on wearing full cloths, i know one in my family about 3-year-old. For her its like worth of great celebration when she has no cloths on. so by forcing kids to put on proper cloths do we do bad to them
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Regarding little girls wearing scarfs in hot weather, i think parents only think of whats best for their kids, after all who can better decide whats best for them. So you should leave this thought of good/bad and if u feel ur doing the right thing by not treating ur ones the same way then u should be satisfied with yourself, but if anyone objects on it the same way u just did then u might feel the same thing that they should mind their own business.
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So… You’re saying that the majority of ulema are NOT of the opinion that a women’s hair is part of her satar?
Please, with reference, explain how a Muslim woman should be dressed.
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Kudos to OP for maintaining cool in the face of unnecessary aggression by some.
My 2 cents - to each his/her own.
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ok pls someone explain me what comes under Hijaab?
is it only head scarf or niqaab as well?
personally speaking i don’t like little girls wearing nigaab or scarf i also agree that Islamically a girl needs to observe purdah when she reaches puberty, so anyone observing it when they are little is not something required by Islam but having said that, if someone is following this practice it certainly doesn’t contradict Islam because following something which you are not obligated to follow at a certain point in time but you still do, is treated as a good deed.
secondly, until a kid is mature enough to make his/her own choices, it is the parent’s responsibility to guide him/her in the right direction. so if some parents are encouraging their little daughters to wear scarf/niqaab it is all fair.
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So you’re saying that a hijab is necessary for a 4 year old? A hijab is not like any other article of clothing. It carries religious meaning.
What parents think is best for their kids doesn’t mean it’s always right. I didn’t go up to this lady and tell her off, nor did I personally attack anyone in this discussion for dressing their kids in whatever way that they do.
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cool down what i mean to say is that kids really dont know whats good/bad for them its parents responsibility, being human isn’t is necessary for them (kids) to be dressed even if they really dont want to, and now what type of dressing they will do, simple, if they are part of muslim family they will dress up like one, and to what point they make them dress up, step by step while being mature or all at ones at small age is totally their decision, whatever they feel is right. it might not be of any significance to u but maybe for them it is. Parents are not enemy of their kids.
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TT bhai/behen
Hijabi Baji say khud hi pooch layna tha, you are basing all this on assumption that girls were not wearing it from their own choice.
My daughter(4 year old) do not go outside with out hijab just becuase she ses her mother do so, we have to convince her at times that she is not required to do this specialy in summers.
Even if it was by force , this is just wrong intrepretation of few individuals, like in many secualr/liberal families there is a strong opposition if their son/daughter starts growing beard/observing hijab. Jazbaatis are on both sides, say kahlli walli ![]()
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Hmm, methinks that TT only stated an observation and expressed his point of view. If we all stopped doing that, there would be no Gupshup. Chill people, and the day I stop thinking I’m a better Muslim that the other person is the day we will truly progress. Meanwhile, let’s all kill each other, either in the way of the *shudders to take their name, or verbal bullets. ![]()
So… You’re saying that the majority of ulema are NOT of the opinion that a women’s hair is part of her satar?
Please, with reference, explain how a Muslim woman should be dressed.
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Oh you poor soul.
You might have to do better than that.
When I said disagreement I was referring to kkf’s statement “must be covered”, not what you are saying. Nobody must do anything. Its this kind of preaching that turns a misinterpretation into a problem.
Makes the rest of your question obsolete.
With regards to your last question, I do not prescribe to any woman or man how they dress.
What I do have problem with is people not being able to mind their own business and letting people practice their religion how they want.
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Cute
but little girls shouldn’t be made to dress like adults.
How is a little girl wearing a hijab to be like her mother any different from a little boy who accompanies his father to the mosque and performs sajdhas, not knowing what he is doing?
Boys wears a topi and goes to mosque with his dad, immitates everyones actions no one batts an eye
Girl wears a hijab and accompany their mum to the shops and everyone loses their minds.