Re: Listening to your heart..or brain..?
instincts are better predictor of human nature. matter of heart and mind, are nothing but matters of being how much reasoning and logic one has either functionally or organically.
some people are strong and mature, tasteful and honest.
others are not.
so, instead of letting them off the hook with this alibi of blaming the heart or blaming the brain, it in fact is the personality, the motives, the sense of entitlement, or deceitful selfishness, which ought to be seen prior to making any decision to be with a person and in for a long bad experience.
it is easier to discern, when you know if your hearts and your minds are ethical.
if they are not and you at least have the decency & common sense of admitting to that, still there is a chance that you will be able to gracefully quit playing the selfish, insensitive smart one. presumably, that is hard for many to do.
& so they consistently live in this dungeon of their insecurities blaming the ehart or the mind of their own as being the confused & of the honest one as being the confusing!
next thing you know, such a thankless, mean creature makes off as a snake who just bit someone, and goes onto the next prey.
be ware. be ware.
this heart and mind dip-**** is their tool to make them lure people and pity them. an advice: don't!
best,
Dushwari