when u say aunties.. who actually do u girls refer to?.. ur MIL?..cuz other then her, there shouldnt be anyone forcing u or telling u what u should or should not do.. so who exactly are those 'aunties'?
mother in law's sahalieen,realtives,ami'e friends,khalas,phupi's etc .
Don't worry about it. You'll grow out of this phase. When you have 2.3 kids following you around, you don't need gold jewellary or red lipstick to convince any "auntie" that you are happily married. :p
They want us to show-off :-p and have that "married look " with red thopi houi lipsticks ,alot of gold ,2-3 kids etc .