Re: Limit of Patience is Over
I didn't tell you the whole story, these are not choti choti batain, we are here for four years when we were back after long period of time, every one wants respect and warm welcome. Am I right or wrong? If you go to someone the host gave you dirty room this is nothing for you but we want a warm welcome, when my sil came to us for visit us we gave here warm welcome set our guest room with new stuff, so we deserve best for us.
As I said above there are two rooms in the house one is clean and weldecorated for younger son but hte elder son got dirty room is this fair?? They hired a servant for house keeping, just for 10 days after marriage ceremony she went off and they want the two daughter-in-laws one me and the other one is newly married did the whole work, we both are there for 2 weeks. I went there to attend shadi and enjoyment not for house keeping. They afford a servant but not did that. My bil came back with his wife here after a month. When ever somebody came to visit us we made good programs to entertain them not ignored our guests.
After all I want to say just one thing there are so many ways to do easy things but if anybody thinks the dil are servants they are wrong, one of my sil's susraal have lots of servant, like for cleaning, vege cutting, washing, baby sitter, my mil said her daughter is in good family but for us she said maasi is not doing good job so do by your self, we are here do every job of home, when we visit Pakistan, this is just for a enjoyment not for house job even I cooked there but still there is a difference in dil and maassi. Even they can afford maasi why not she got one to serve during our visit.