Re: Liking a chick?
No my friend, there are lots of other things you have to consider and lots of filters but immense physical attraction is the first. There are billions of good people but the only good person meant for you is the one who steals your breath away. Not everyone is physically attracted to the same person, some like tall, some short, some like dark and some fair.
I have seen too often where people married to someone they weren’t attracted to live in severe discontentment and ogling at people they find physically attractive. The reason I spent my life giving my children sculpted physiques is I want them to be desirable. No way in hell would Safy get Clara without his physical presence. Even Socrates 3000 yrs ago asked people to exercise.
Nature gave us this huge complicated DNA and chemistry for a reason and we should listen to our instincts. Marriages of convenience can help you get by but not make you ecstatic.
You never leave a hand once you hold it. That is just my principle.