Liking a chick?

[Bobby1]

Re: Liking a chick?

@Pisiform

So my mom has recently been giving numbers of potential girls. Specially, she has been pushing me to see this girl and gave me her number. We spoke few times on the phone, she is nice, educated, working but recently came to US like 2 weeks ago so she is still learning. Looks wise she is cute, not ugly or anything, but I am not really super attracted to her. So my family really insisting me on meeting her and so I will be seeing her in next few days over a coffee or meal or something.

She is the type of girl who I can see myself marrying but at the same time not super excited or anxious about it! I feel kinda ‘meh’ about the whole situation. Even though she is okay to talk to, educated, on my religious level, not bad looking/average, but I don’t feel the chemistry or sparks or whatever…

I told this to my mom and she told me so far this is the best girl for me and I won’t find anyone else lol. She told me its bad out there and its hard finding girls and all the pretty, educated, nice ones got married early and none are left so this is my best bet

I am like WTF! Because I know I may not be handsome but I am not super ugly either. I have dated girls from my med school class before which means I have got some game.

So what should I do? Should I keep looking or should I settle? Is it necessary to be swooning/excited over someone you want to marry? Because I just don’t feel that way even though nothing is wrong with that girl

I also kinda feel bad about going to lunch with her knowing I would probably say no. Feels like I am wasting her time

My rule about physical attraction is that she should take your breath away, just imagine if you are not attracted to her today what would you feel 20 yrs from now 3 kids in between. After a serious talk on this matter my wife’s nephew left the girl he was about to marry.

Please don’t do lunch with her.