Life1 forum posters (Self Analysis)

Ashy2010 · May 13, 2011, 8:12am

Re: Life1 forum posters (Self Analysis)

Of course honest answers are required, not the ideal ones. What is your opinion ?

**1. --------**Is your reply to a thread influenced after you read the user name of the O.P or it doesn’t matter to you whoever the O.P. is. You just want to focus on the topic under discussion without having any prejudice/past grudges against the O.P and vice versa. For example, would your way of replying to a thread change if the O.P. were your best friend on GS and vice versa. (From polite to sarcastic and vice versa).

No influence. Focus on the topic. I don’t think I have any grudges with anyone here. However, I do understand the kinds of person most of the people here are since they seem to reflect their thinking in their posts like liberal, moderate, mature, childish etc (other also might have some views about me) but I try to focus on the issue and try to convey my POV without keeping the person’s image in my mind.

2.-------- Does it matter to you how rational the presented logic is or your focus is more on the ‘gender’ a comment is supporting ? Is your giving “likeness” also influenced by the “username” who gave the comment or the gender in favor of which the comment was given.

**Again no influence. Being a female does not mean I have to always support females. Females can be wrong sometimes just like males. We are human and we cannot generalise that being females, we should always take females side despite the fact that they are wrong and being unreasonable. A situation must be analysed without any bias but some posters do start bashing here if they think our POV is against their gender. **

3.--------If the topic of the thread or a post doesn’t make sense to you, do you still remain respectful and disagree or you cross the boundaries of good manners.

**Every person has his/ her own opinion. We shouldn’t be disrespectful to their opinion. If we don’t agree to them, better to leave them with their views rather than forcing them to change their opinions. Every person’s opinions are formed on the basis of his/ her experiences which vary for each person. His/ her perspective may be different from ours so why should impose our views on them? We can try to convince them but cannot make them change their views necessarily each time.

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