Re: life
Everything okay, Phil?
Yes, as you grow older and wiser and more independent…you can try to improve things that others may have messed up. For example, there’s only so much one can blame their parents for (who are also imperfect)…because you have a greater responsibility toward yourself to make healthy decisions to better your life as opposed to just playing the blame game.
Sometimes people do realize (at some point) that their actions were hurtful and they’ll express regret for their mistakes…other times people do realize their mistakes but their pride and other factors might prevent them from apologizing…and it’s also possible that they may never realize their mistakes. We can’t always get closure from people who have hurt us…and sometimes even when we try to seek it…we may not get exactly what we were looking for. Sometimes we have to provide ourselves with closure by moving on. It’s not easy, it will take time, but it’s not impossible.
you’re right. absolutely. and i guess anyone with any real experience in life understands this and realizes the same happens to others…life’s not perfect.
you’re also right.