Well, I have a full-time job and work close to 50-60 hours every week. And before my full-time job, school kept me busy. In the evenings…after work…I usually hit the gym 3-4x/week. I also keep busy on some evenings and on weekends by volunteering at several local organizations. There was one year where I took a dance class (learned the basics of waltz and salsa).
And when I’m not busy with work, gym, or volunteering activities…I hang out with my friends. Going to movies, dinners, local museums, shows, and even going on out-of-town trips on weekends…whatever we’re in the mood for. Oh…and I don’t live with my parents so that means I also do all my own housework (cleaning, cooking, laundry, grocery etc).
alright… being unmarried is not ending my loneliness either…
& i m not rushing in to it at all… i m just waiting for the right guy & thats it…& as i mentioned we are human beings & we do feel down at times & sometimes we cant help it too…
ppl realize when they grow old and the people around them start dying mom, dad, and you realized you havent really shared your life with anyone special
and the argument that marriage is no guarantee is in valid - at least it is some guarantee
Ok, so you’re wanting to get married…have you taken any steps in finding yourself a husband? Or are you just complaining and not actively doing anything?
Fair enough. In the meantime please stop sounding so needy and desperate. You might find that once you stop behaving this way, you may actually find him when you least expect it.