Life Partner Wanted: Prefer someone with a child or two.....

[Muzna]

Re: Life Partner Wanted: Prefer someone with a child or two…

@Paheli00

^ This was my understanding of the post. Guy wants to marry a woman who has a young child already (divorced or widowed ok). But the ONLY reason he wants someone with a child is b/c in his mind, that’s a guarantee that she can get pregnant with his child.

Someone please correct me if I misunderstood the original post.

You did misunderstand.
He wants to marry because he fears that fertility issues can strike at any time in the 30’s and not just the woman but the man as well. (The problems in his social circle are not isolated to the women. That’s why he wants to get checked.)
He is not worried about having more children…but believes that if there is already a child present in the union then he is assured of fatherhood as he would be the father of that pre-existing child.